How To Meet Women In Nightclubs

Nightclubs. For the inexperienced male or one lacking in onfidence, nightclubs can be one of the most intimidating settings. Now add the extra variable of wanting to meet women there, it adds fuel to the fear fire. For some men, all they know is the nightclub scene and think that is the best place to hook up and meet women. For others it's an unknown place with bizarre social rules. For others it's a place they've never been to and prefer to stay away from.

If you want to learn how to meet women in nightclubs then you have to understand both the reality and the fantasy elements of nightclubs. The fantasy part is that men know that nightclubs, especially the "hot" ones, have more attractive women in one place then almost any other public venue. Some nightclubs actually go out of their way to keep the female to male ratio as close to 50/50 as possible because they know if there are more women there, then more male patrons will come.

Nightclubs can be a lot of fun because there's drinking, dancing, and meeting new people.Now let's take a look at the reality of meeting women in nightclubs. A woman spends an average of 2 hours getting ready before going out to a nightclub.

Why? There are several reasons for this but a very common one is that they know there are going to be other attractive women there and they know they have to look their very best if they are going to get any attention from men. Men typically go to nightclubs to hook up, whereas women typically go to nightclubs to have fun with their girlfriends and to seek validation from men. There's a small percentage of women that go to nightclubs to hook up with that "hot" guy, but most women don't go there for that.

There's another thing to think about when going to nightclubs to meet women. About 8 out of every 10 women that go there are not what I would call long-term relationship material. Many of the women that go to nightclubs are going there to seek validation, to get their egos stroked, are in their partying phase, and generally would not make a suitable long term mate. You've got to keep that in mind when you set out for a night out.

I've met some fantastic women at nightclubs because I've learned how to sort out the freaks, the flakes, and the attention whores.A major mistake men make when they want to meet women in nightclubs is they go there with an agenda. That agenda is usually to get laid, hook up, or find a girlfriend.

The problem with that mindset is that it leads to needy and sometimes desperate behavior. I see a lot of men walk in to a nightclub and their main focus is to scope out the talent. They need to learn how to be more subtle about it. Another needy behavior is walking up to a woman and offering to buy her a drink. Wait a cotton-pickin' minute....she hasn't even done anything to deserve a free drink yet.

I never buy a woman that I've just met a drink, she has to earn it first by having a two-way interaction with me. So when I walk up to her and approach her it might be as simple as saying "Hi, my name is

Rod and yours is?"

I'm qualfying her to see if she is interesting enough for me to stick around. Men generally do it the other way around where they try to impress her or bribe her with an offer of a free drink. Women know this and the really hot ones even come up with lame rules such as "we never pay for drinks". I've dated many attractive women ranging from college coeds to corporate women and most of them had similar rules.

An attractive woman knows she can go out at night and never have to pay for a drink or even pay to gain entrance. To meet women in nightclubs you must learn how to stand out. A powerful way to stand out is to do your research before you go to any nightclub.

Find out who owns the nightclubs, read reviews about it online on sites like Yelp.com, and when you do go, show up early and get to know the door people and the rest of the staff. I've gone out to new nightclubs and even by my second visit I already have people calling me by my name because I gave them a large tip, bothered to learn their name, and even invited them over my apartment for a "happy hour" or mixer.

When the staff knows you it makes a big impression on the women there because it naturally increases your social status. They assume you're somebody important.

The #1 thing you can do in a nightclub setting is to go there with two goals in mind: to have fun and to meet new people. It really is that simple. When you show up, grab your beverage of choice, walk around the nightclub once or twice just to see what's going on, and then find a spot and get ready to mingle.

One technique you can use is while you're walking around the nightclub is to make a few comments to different groups of girls. You can even ask them how they're doing and if they're having fun. Once they give you their answers you can say "Great!" and then walk away, leaving them wondering who you are. It sets it up nicely to talk to them later.

 

Getting the Pointe: A Violinist Pursues Her Dream of Dancing Ballet

My sagging sock feet slip on the waxy buffed linoleum as I awkwardly shuffle my way past a gaggle of giggling girls in baby pink tutus. I'm wearing my yoga clothes, which have sadly not seen a yoga mat in two years, and my long mane of hair is reluctantly tied back in a girlie ponytail.

I feel ridiculous. I'm a thirty-year-old woman enrolled in a ballet class with teenage girls.

The seven-year-olds clear out and any moment now I'll be greeted by perfectly straight white smiles perched on top of perfectly young, toned bodies in lululemon spandex. Slouching in my slouch socks I catch my nervous reflection in the enormous wall of mirrors glaring back at me. Socks are not the only things that are sagging in this gal; my body has seen nine long months of pregnancy, two years of nursing and a several years skipping the morning make-up routine to chase after an active son.

I came here today to begin something I yearned to do almost twenty years ago.

I grew up the oldest child of a single mother who struggled to put food on the table. My best friend's family was well-off and put their children through whatever after school activities and summer camps their hearts desired. Among riding lessons, piano lessons, flute ensemble and painting class, Meghan excelled in ballet and violin.

She played beginning Suzuki "Twinkle Twinkle" variations and tears of yearning welled up in my eyes. She performed simple dance routines on the glossy hardwood floor of her living room set to orchestral music on the hi-fi and I applauded her every move. Sometimes she allowed me to wear her old ballet slippers and a flowing black skirt as I mimicked her clumsily.

A passionate fan of classical music since birth [and a typical pre-teen girl], I became enamoured with both violin and ballet and begged my mother to send me to classes. Sadly finances forbade it completely and I was relegated to the audience to watch and admire Meghan.

When I was twelve my mother was seriously injured at the shipyard where she painted oil tankers. She received a very modest cash settlement to take care of the doctor's bills and time off work. In her first position to pay for a class, my mother said I could take up one activity: ballet classes for a year or the purchase of a violin.

Ballet or violin? My maturity and insight in the decision took my mother by surprise. I chose violin knowing I could play violin for a lifetime as opposed to the very short careers of performing ballerinas. One thousand dollars of my mother's pain money funded my first violin, a Karl Knilling German factory fiddle made in 1989.

We certainly couldn't afford private lessons but that didn't stop me living and breathing violin. I took the city bus downtown and brought home as many sheet music scores and audio tapes as the public library would allow. We moved so I could attend school where orchestra was offered. Practicing three to five hours a day, I quickly advanced to the concertmaster position and soon started ensembles of my own.

Music college and several orchestras later I find myself married with a child and the owner of a violin business. Life had zoomed past and I never again looked back on my desire to dance ballet.

It was New Year's Eve at Grandma's house and my six-year-old son was doing his usual dance after supper routine, this time heightened by the vast quantities of Christmas candy he had consumed. On a whim I put on the John Travolta film "Staying Alive," thinking my son would appreciate the modern dance sequences and I'd enjoy a jaunt down memory lane with the classic flick.

The movie rocked Ryan's world. He was copying the moves with amazing accuracy, the spins and leaps and beaming ear to ear. The dancing he saw on the screen illuminated a whole new level of appreciation for dance and confirmed a fervent desire in his heart to dance.

My mother watched with adoration and I felt a deep pride: I'd helped him find something he loved. Heck, anyone could enroll their kids in a hundred activities, but it's far more meaningful when it's something their heart aches for. I'd even go as far to say that when you get something too easily it's not as sacred. I'd been waiting for this moment to come and was more than willing to support him in it.

A week later Ryan was enrolled in the winter semester of ballet for 6 year olds. He was the only boy in the class, but that didn't faze him. Surrounded by pink flowing fairies my child looked like a ninja in his black sweats and dragon T-shirt. He started late in the year but was keeping up well and particularly enjoying the theatrics of the class.

For four weeks I peeked through the doors of the waiting room and watched Ryan's class alone while other parents ran errands with the spare 45 minutes. One session I was, as usual, copying the class' movements from behind the door when another parent asked, "you're a dancer too?"

It hit me like a load of ballet shoes. "Me, a dancer?" I thought. It had never occurred to me to take up dance as an adult. "Why the heck not," I told myself. "I just turned thirty years old, dammit, and I can take ballet classes if I want to!"

So here I am in the Shuswap Dance ballet studio waiting to make an ass of myself. My inner twelve-year-old got me here, but the sensible 30-year-old thinks I'm nuts. "Should I run now and spare myself the embarrassment?"

My classmates enter the room. Normal looking teenage girls in sweats and T-shirts, no makeup, no perfect figures. Not the prima pink ballerinas I expected. Just some young ladies who want to learn to dance. (Phew, I won't need to buy anything pink!)

Our instructor, Carolyn Wonacott, starts us out skipping around the room... backwards. I'm tripping on myself and getting in everyone's way: making a complete ass of myself as expected. But I' laughing and having the time of my life. Carolyn blasts Michael Jackson's "Billy Jean" as we practice twirling around the room, dizzy and giddy.

My muscles are protesting from the sudden activity as if to say, "what did we do to you to deserve this sudden onslaught of torture?" The pliés (I'm sure which literally translates to "pain in le ass") are killer, but they make me feel like a graceful dancer so I forge on. I know I'll feel this tomorrow but continue to bend deeper into the stretch.

"I'm a dancer," I snicker.

I learn that my class performs more than just ballet. We work on a jazzy swing number and next break into a chirpy hip-hop number by, er, Brittney who? I'm an old matron who listens to CBC news radio; completely out of touch with 21st Century pop culture. The girls fill me in on the singer's recent head shaving and suspected drug addiction and we move on. I try my best to copy their moves and fail miserably to keep up but know I'll get it eventually.

The class ends and I head upstairs to buy my first set of dancing shoes. I'm tired, far more tired than I'd expected I'd be, but I feel a warm glow in my bones as I slip on various slippers and shoes. I settle on a cozy pair of jazz shoes and receive encouragement from Carolyn. We both know I'll never dance with the Royal Ballet and may not make it on to pointe shoes. I don't mind. I'm just fulfilling a promise to myself and it feels great.

I wear the shoes all the time, eagerly awaiting the next class. I lace up my adorable little black shoes and stretch my toes into the lovely pointe shape I've admired for so many years. A feeling of pride and accomplishment washes over me.

I have learned that I can do anything I set my mind to. This was a gift that my mother passed on to me: the gift of learning to really want something and having the desire and tenacity to make it happen.

And this time around I'll have my handsome son as a dance partner.

**Rhiannon Schmitt (nee Nachbaur) is an award-winning classical violinist/fiddler and music teacher operates Fiddleheads Violin School & Shop. She shop has also won several distinguished business awards and offers beginner to professional level instruments, accessories and supplies with exceptional personal service: http://www.fiddleheads.ca

 

If You Can Make Her Laugh She is All Yours

Make her wild about you

One of the best things a man can do to get a woman’s attention is to make her laugh. When you ask a woman what she looks for in a man one of the first things that come out of her mouth is that the guy should have a sense of humor. So it’s no surprise that one of the very best seduction techniques you can use to attract women is laughter.

I must admit, at first, I didn’t realize how true this was. I just thought sense of humor was what all women responded with when asked, “What do you look for in a guy?” As I studied the best ways to seduce women over the years, however, I found laughter to be one the best ways to get into a woman’s pants.

Step your game up

How many times are you going to tell her that you own an S-class Mercedes Benz? Are you really going to keep telling her that you earn a six-figure salary? If that’s your way of seducing women then you are in big trouble. You are only going to attract gold diggers this way. Working on your sense of humor is a much better way to seduce women than trying to impress her with materialistic things. Women know what you have; you don’t have to throw it in their faces all the time. On the other hand, when you can make a woman laugh, you are stimulating her mind and turning her on by the second.

In fact, I have used laughter to seduce gorgeous, young women many times without fail. They always end up calling me and telling me that they would love nothing more than to “hang out” because they enjoy my company. So please, close your wallets and open your eyes… the key to a women’s heart is through laughter.

You must work on your sense of humor

Luckily, I’m a guy who has a natural high sense of humor. And women are helplessly drawn to me because of it. I have a fantastic sex life simply because I have the ability to make women laugh and have a good time. And at the end of the day, that is all a woman wants: a guy that can make her feel good. If you can make her feel liberated and forget about the stress that she might have by making her laugh, you are well on your into her pants.

But what if you are not so lucky? What if you aren’t naturally funny? What if you have absolutely no sense of humor? Do you consider yourself a boring individual? Don’t worry. I have a solution. You should practice your sense of humor by first being opportunistic. What do I mean by this? I am merely suggesting that you strike when the moment presents it self—no need to force jokes. When you see something that you find a bit odd, for example, why not use a little bit of sarcasm? Say, for instance, you see a grossly overweight man in Burger King ordering everything on the menu, you can say to your date “I can see his diet is going extremely well.” Now I am not one to bash people in public, but if you say something like this low enough so that only she hears you, she will have a great laugh out of it.

Nobody said you have to become Richard Pryor or Jim Carey to be considered funny. All you need is a little sense of humor and that can be the difference between a girl saying, “I guess I’ll see you around” and “Hey, want to come inside for a drink, Hun?” at the end of a date… if you know what I mean.

Girls can’t get enough

In order to be recognized as funny you need to be consistently hilarious. As you practice and work on your sense of humor it will quickly become second nature. One thing you will realize is that being funny is all about timing. You have to know what to say and when to say, or it wont be funny at all.

You should also take note that what is funny to one woman may not be funny to another. So do not feel discouraged if she doesn’t find your jokes that funny. Just keep working at it.

Something else you should beware of is aiming your jokes at the woman who you are trying to seduce. Girls are really sensitive and self-conscious about their looks; if you tease women in the attempt to make them laugh, they may feel offended by your joke. Yes, some women will laugh it off; but I found that most women don’t like being teased. I think this is due to the fact that most women subconsciously have low self-esteem. She loves when you make her laugh… just don’t do it at her expense.

Learn how to seduce women with exclusive secrets tips and strategies that few men use. Gain the upper hand and get any woman you desire with ease. Seducing women is something that has to be learned and I show you exactly how. For part 2 of this article, as well other important seduction methods, please visit http://www.show-me-how-to-get-laid.com/ Chris Walker is the owner of all said material in this article. You can distribute his material on a non-exclusive, royalty-free basis, while he retains full rights to his work. You can use his article as long as you do not change any of the content without his permission.

 

Spoil Your Boys with Designer Clothing

Designer clothing used to be an exclusive privilege of adults, but that has changed. With the deluge of advertising and publicity offered by television, designer clothing has come in demand by younger and younger children. Everyone wants to look good and feel special regardless of age.

Clothing designers and manufacturers have responded to this growing demand. They have also in a sense fueled the demand by targeted advertising and promotion campaigns. It is potentially a huge market for them that one can expect they will fully leverage and exploit.

Designer clothing tends to lend a sense of elegance to a personal clothing style. One has to realize that the days of boys generally being happy with wearing just anything that covers the body are over. So are the days of milking cows and carrying in the sack of coal. Social and peer pressure have sensitized many boys to the need to look good and make a good impression.

In general, boys do not tend to be too fussy about the specific label; they are more just pursuing the elegance that designer clothing gives them, and the furtive glances they get from the girls when they wear those garments. They also love that extra boost of self-confidence it gives them.

Ambient and simple colors are the in thing nowadays. The flashy studded leather look is so 60's and 70's, and your boys would probably rather die than be seen in something from yester year. Hence, it is important to clothe your boys with what is in fashion, keeping in mind that the chosen clothing also has to fit well and compliment the teenager's body style.

Designer clothing for boys includes the basics of the typical top and bottom, or shirt and pants. In addition, it also extends to other garments like sweaters, jackets, bands, neck-scarves, caps, skull-caps, and much more.

Nowadays these special pieces of clothing can easily be found and ordered online. Your boy would probably not particularly like it to spend an afternoon with mom in a clothing store, but he most likely wouldn't mind, and might even be thrilled, to spend a few hours one evening browsing designer clothing websites and picking out what he likes.

One of the more popular designer clothing for boys is khaki. Khaki has been in fashion for more than 10 years, but recently this trend has been growing rapidly. Labels such as Abercrombie and Fitch, PDI, Giordano, Seed, Prada, Crocodile, and Camel have all produced fantastic khaki garments that feel as light as feather and don't hug your legs at all. They are also available in many colors such as khaki brown, beige, white, black, purple, gray, and many more.

Designer clothing might be more expensive, but the durability makes up for the higher price. The old adage is true; you get what you pay for. You love and treasure your precious boys. Treat them with some designer clothing this year and see how they glow when that special girl throws them a look and a smile.

Pierre Perissel has a trendy fashion information column on TheFashionPro.com, a site dedicated to providing you with your fashion needs and that allows you to air your views on and rate the fashion choices of celebrities.

 

When Is A Divorce Not A Divorce?

I am no expert but my article isn’t rocket science either!

It’s just my opinion and mine only so remember this, God has given me some insight to divorce as I am divorced!

I write this in disarray and write this in pain, as church’s and Christians are way out of line letting/permitting some couples to divorce over hurting of each others feelings and emotions!

I have a good friend who said to me as I was separated from my wife “We will never do that me and my girl.” But the sad news is they divorced over him watching too much TV and having a distorted over imaginative sex drive. Well they got divorced just after a month or so being married. A year latter!

So this is how divorce upsets God.

Two people telling God that they love each other and then saying to God” sorry God I made a mistake or you should of told me that the other partner was not suited to me “

What went wrong from love to hate in this I mean especially emotionless? Especially in the form of a divided love or love being pushed in as lust form!

The bible says not to put lust in a wedding or marriage.

I am witness and guilty of such a crime

So when does it become a crime?

How does it being legally compromising a marriage?

Guys a sex organ is not the decider of whom you should choose as a wife.

Nor girls a man who can fix your kitchen cupboard is not a candidate for stability!

You know books have been written on what kind of relationship is “the norm” or what is not.

But they lack spiritual content and Sigmund fraud as I call him; he got booed of the stage when he said that people are sexual beings and then went on to prove it.

The term comes from a Greek word spirit being or the term emotion elating to the term psychology!

But does not explain the social or ethical and quarantines the Holy Spirit's promptings And does damage to what God says about love in the true sense!

Love is faithfully devoted to the other person’s wellbeing and making the other person not only feel comfy but knows that they are loved! If you look at two old people who are in a lounge room not saying a word in front of a TV and one knitting and the other reading a book and they know that the other person loves and cares for them and will not have to prove it by buying expensive gifts or doing anything to prove it!

“Love is faithful and knows no wrong.”

Well if that is the case why do we as humans in any part kid ourselves. Basically we are all wanton and self indulgent and not only westernized but over proud of our selves. We think the other person should serve me the one in need!

Well?

It is the case and we need to put the other person in the picture or love in perspective you don’t need them and they don’t need you. We need to be whole as a single person and marry another whole single person, not find our wholeness as a couple as we are lacking when we are single. If you are not stable as a single person you are not going to be stable as a married one, you are simply going to have a co-dependent marriage.

One time when my wife went out for the day for the first time away from me for a day when she got home I said all you care about is you.

Well I was really wrong and out of line and out of place!

Any way this is just the past but it stays in my memory and I see it clearly and better than when it first happened all those twelve years ago!

The next time it happened I went out and had a blast with my friend as well and it was good!

You know I have that mentality today about the woman I love now if I can tell you she is nice and sweet but I am not going to marry her if I can’t live without her!

In this I mean she is not the main reason for me to want to marry her I want a woman who loves God way more than me as this woman must do just that and do it effectively and I must do that to!

I must still go out and evangelize and worship God and tell people about Jesus and not put the main focus on her but Put God in Number one place of my life that is how we should be doing it!

Even if you are not a Christian it is very important to at least do what you were doing before you met the person that you loved!

Like if you play sport don’t give up all sport just to please him or her but include the partner in it as well

My wife used to love watching me ride motor bike and she thought me as her hero and she was proud of me as I was a good motor enthusiast.

And if I get the chance to do so again I would love to ride a bike again!

I don’t know if you can remarry again after you get divorced as I am in a place of protection and grace as I won’t bother me if I stayed single and just hung out as a big kid.

Many people get married a lot over and over again like it is their religion like reincarnation hoping this time they got it right but the Bible calls it adultery for both Sadly their hurt little inner child or ego intention to be like the guys or girls in the circle but if they knew were going in to a burning house would you go and follow knowing that you would end up dead?

Well if the answer is no why do you lower your agenda and make your self an apostate to the Lord and to the written word of God?

I read in the Bible that one can divorce for being unfaithful but no where does it say you can re-marry without it being adultery to your former partner.

Ask your self this if you loved your partner so much why would you do this to them and making them vulnerable enough to sin and get married again and devoid the covenant with you and God through Jesus blood shed for you at Calvary?

Anyway I am asking one this if you loved the person so much why would you fall out of love with them?

This is no IQ test but a heart felt cry no don’t end up like the heathen who have knowledge and don’t obey it!

Read John 3 the whole chapter in the Bible in a King James Bible if possible and see what it says for your self .

I will not ramble on but just love you in Christ may God bless you!

Kind regards from Yianni

Yianni heads up an online prayer site where strangers can request a free prayer via email or a personal prophecy from God and he can be also contacted at http://www.online-prayer.net

 

7 Bold Reasons Why Men Shouldn't Cheat Their Wives

 "What is the next step that a man can do if his wife cannot satisfy his sexual needs?" asked by A.

At first I thought A was asking about how to boost his sexuality with proper nutrition and food, but when I further read the question, I got a shock. Well, it seems now it is the problem of a wife. Nevertheless, I am writing on behalf of A before writing on the 2 golden keys that a wife should have to keep their marriage vibrant.

To have huge sexual appetite is not a sin nor something to be shy of. One should never underestimate the power of sex. Sex is part of our everyday life like food is to all of us. Have a look at what I have to say for the above asked question. Since it is a question asked, at least this friend A is considering what to do and not involved in anything yet. Luckily he is also asking on behalf of another friend. But I am in no position to influence him in any order. I respect a person's choice. My only advice is to read through my 7 bold reasons why man shouldn't cheat their wives before making any decision. Your own decision is still your best decision.

[1] MQ to consider

What is this? It is Moral Quotient. All of us have to be aware of the importance of MQ in the family. MQ is a skill to do things correct and right. MQ is a skill that all of us should possess. I always sum up this quotient as how one should do things right and proper. 'Do not do to others that you don't like others to do unto you" It is a saying of a wise sage, Confucius..

Understand the verse, read the verse, memorize the verse. If one doesn't allow his spouse, the wife to cheat on him, he should also not cheat at the first place. Will you be hurt if your wife cheated you too when you are at home while she went travelling?

[2] Not fair to the wife

It is not fair to the wife who stays at home to look after the children while her husband cheats her on business trips. Cheating hurts just anyone, especially the fairer sex. The proper wife who have to always stay at home to look after the family are not aware of being cheated. But if we look at things at a closer range, all of us will be angered by such deeds. If you have a father who always cheat on your mother, how will you feel? If you have a beloved daughter and she is always cheated by her husband, how will you feel?

[3] Invite troubles

All of us should be responsible for what we do. All of us have to be aware that a secret will not be a secret forever. Sometimes after a husband cheated his wife overseas, he brought back herpes and had his wife infected. I personally knew of a case where her husband cheated on her on a business trip to Peking and brought back a horrible sex disease. She only found out through her pregnancy of her third child because the doctor told her that her baby was diseased and have to be aborted.

It was double shock for her. She cried her eyes swollen and I personally comforted her during her abortion which was such a disgraceful and inhuman act. I sympathized her but couldn't do anything. She was terribly upset and suffered mentally and emotionally too. She lost her baby just because of her husband's unfaithfulness. A night of betrayal have caused enough hurt and dismays not worth to mention.

[4] Beware of AIDS

Do you know the amount of people dying of AIDS? Or do you know how AIDS have caused miseries and anguish for many affected patients? Are you only looking at your own selfish needs and never understood the cries and pleads of untold women in distress? AIDS are in rampant in so many countries. Look out for more details from the net.

[5] Forbidden fruit once tasted will be difficult to rid.

The sins and temptations of flesh are not easily erased. It will be easily addicted. Bad influence brings bad results. Prevention is better than cure. As I always mention on the case of Samson. His night of sensual pleasure caused him lifetime imprisonment and eventually death. He regretted but was too late. He sacrificed his precious life for just that night's pleasure. Temporary pleasure is just so shortlived. Temporary pleasure have to be paid a hundredfold. Sometimes, we are no better than mere animals who know no morals and no self discipline.

[6] When you buy sex, you are also encouraging this profession

When there is demand, there is supply. Demand comes first. Too many young girls are now influenced by the comfort of light and easy earned money. Once known as the oldest profession is now a popular profession. Sad to say, where can we find peace of mind for our sisters and our daughters? What is our younger generations lacking of? Why the lost of control of youngsters nowadays? Why are these naive, innocent and nice girls not able to do things proper? Where is their MQ? What have gone wrong to all of us? Who to blame? The lure of .....?

[7] Pass the test

Sometimes it is a pre-set trap from your spouse. Humans should learn to pass this test, a temptation of flesh. We shouldn't only emphasize on this physical act of love, we should learn more about the 95% meaning of LOVE.. Learn more on God's love, parental love, fraternal love, spouse's love, friendships, partnerships, comradeships and patriotic love too. It is rather on one's concept towards how one looks at love and marriage. No one can help if he or she is unwilling to change. Yes, no one, except you yourself.

Understand the law of harvest, understand the law of love. Guilt and regret and remorse will eat up one's conscience. You lose, but actually win! You thought you win, but actually lose terribly. If you have decided to cheat, go ahead, but if you have decided not to, I salute you. I salute you because to resist such a temptation is easier said than done. But if all of us can keep to our concept of having one partner for life, you will actually gain more love, more affection, more admiration, more respect, more happiness, more trust from your partner, from your friends and from your family. That is what I should say to sum up this article.

Lucy Wong is a health and nutrition consultant. Her interest in health related issues include the development of mental health. She is also keen in sharing Multiple Qs, she is also an educator and has written many articles on this subject in her personal column under "alternative health" in http://submitarticles.biz Read more about mental health articles in her personal column and discover the secrets of maintaining good mental health.

 

 

Tea For Two Or Twenty? Great Suggestions For Your Bridal Shower

There seems to be a new trend as far as bridal showers are concerned. Contrary to the usual luncheon or early-evening affair, girls these days prefer gathering for a full-on tea party in the afternoon.

Irrespective of whether it's a traditional high-tea service or an off-the-wall "Mad Hatter" party with surprises and games, it is a wonderful way to spend quality time with your friends to celebrate your forthcoming wedding. What you need then is a memento or favor which captures the fun of this special party for your guests.

Once you decide on a bridal shower tea party, you need a little gift for every guest who has been invited. Bridal shower favors for a tea party can be anything, it’s fun to go through the options and find just the right one that suits you.

Edible Favors

The most obvious favor for a bridal shower tea party is tea itself, either in a tea bag or as a loose blend. They can be personalized with your name and the date and location of the party. Similarly, hot chocolate packets or coffee beans can be packed in a trendy pouch with the specifics of the event and the bride's name.

As a sweetener to the party, offer guests decorated sugar cubes or personalized jars of honey. Sugar cubes are available in a wide variety of assortments (purses, floral, and shoes, or monograms, to name a few) and attractive packaging. Heart shaped sugar tablets are also available. Packaged in a glass vial, these are topped with cork stoppers.

Petits fours in the form of gift boxes, or teapot shaped sugar cookies, flowers, hearts, or hats make delicious and pretty gifts.

Traditional Favors

Personalized teacups and saucers or demitasse cups and saucers are good gifts which your guests can use or decorate their homes with.

Linen, either hankies or napkins, are very classy mementos and appropriate for such tea parties.

Tea infusers, especially heart shaped and tied with a pretty ribbon, are a practical gesture that your guests will appreciate.

Place-card holders in the shape of teapots, wedding cakes, flowers or chairs, are charming and useful.

Cards indicating the afternoon's recipes are favorable. You can add a heart-shaped cookie cutter as a special favor.

Whimsical Favors

Trinket boxes or hand-painted teapots are ideal as collectibles that you could gift your friends. Stuff them with mint or tea for a taste of exotica!

Hand fans (made from bamboo or sandalwood) or even parasols can be a terrific gift, especially for hot afternoons.

In order to celebrate your wedding to its fullest, it's necessary to share your good cheer with your friends. A sure recipe for a successful bridal shower tea includes a cleverly thought-out favor, something your friends will take home and cherish those loving moments for a long time.

Finding the right unique tea party wedding favor can sometimes be a difficult task. Your wedding shower deserves a unique and inexpensive, yet elegant touch. Visit hqweddingfavors.com for more innovative ideas for your next tea event.

 

The Appeal Of Paranormal Romance books

More books are sold in the romance category than any other category in fiction. Within the romance genre, paranormal romance is the most popular subgenre. While regular romances feature romantic heros who are larger than life men who are everything a woman could ever want, paranormal romances feature romantic heros who often have fangs and claws. Vampire, werewolves, shape shifters and men who aren't anything like the men around us are the dream guys heroines swoon over, and whom the reader falls for. So what gives?

As little girls, we were brought up on fairy tales. Cinderella meets Prince Charming who swoops her of her feet and they marry and live happily ever after. Snow White runs away from the wicked stepmother, takes care of seven drawfs, bites a poisoned apple as is awakened by kiss from Prince Charming who marries her and they live happily ever after. Sleeping Beauty sleeps in an enchanted castle guarded by the wicked witch until Prince Charming rescues her, marries her and the live happily every after. That's what little girls are brought up to believe. Then they grow up and reality hits. Hard.

The little girl grows up into a fine young woman. She meets fine young men who woo her, charm her and break her heart. Disillusion sets in.

Maybe she gets far enough in a relationship for it to end up in marriage. The Prince Charming who won her heart turns out to be a bully, or even a wife beater. They set up home together and she ends up as his slave. Serving him and his buddies beer, and snacks while they mess up the house. She cooks and cleans for a husband who yells at her. Domestic abuse. Wife bashing. Verbal abuse. All these are swept under the carpet while she puts up a brave front for the world to see.

Then there are cases where Prince Charming sets off to charm other women instead. Instead of a faithful husband, she ends up with a faithless womanizer that leaves her stranded, who strips away her self worth as he goes for a younger, prettier woman.

Barna Research Group conducted a poll in 1999. Seems that in U.S., 25% of the adults would experience one divorce in a lifetime. That excludes those who stick on in loveless marriages.

Is there any wonder why many women get disillusioned by the classic fairy tale romance. Imagination is a form of escape. Books offer an escape from the current unpleasantness in life. To some women, classic romances are hard to swallow. Not after all they've been through. What they've seen of the men around them. In paranormal romances, these men aren't like the regular men. Many are of a different species altogether. That could be the appeal of paranormal romances. They are far enough from regular men to make the happily ever after ending plausible. These heros typically yearn for their one and only soulmate, forsaking all others, forever. They pair up and stay in love for life. Something that is so rare in the real world.

Another appeal of the paranormal romance that gives it a broader appeal than classic romances is the fantasy element in it. Why is Harry Potter so popular? How about Lord Of The Rings? Or even Narnia? It is the fantasy element which draws the reader into a new world. Through this element, paranormal romance books gain a fan base beyond the regular romance novel. One new series that can be considered paranormal romance is the SFX fantasy series. The first book, Warrior Girl. This starts off with a chase scene where the protaganist, Sarah runs flees from one supernatural horror to another. Along the way, she meets Jake, a warrior chief with many amazing powers. A sweet romance develops. This is one of the stories that appeals to both romance readers and fantasy readers alike.

Read more about this new paranormal romance series at http://www.sfxfantasy.com

 

 

25 Percent of All Women Carry HPV

A recent study conducted by the U.S. Center for Disease control concluded that 1 in 4 women carry the cervical cancer virus. The first study to test a broad range of women in America found that the statistics support the vaccination of young girls, as well as older, college age women.

According to an article from HealthDay, “The CDC currently recommends that the vaccine be routinely given to girls 11 and 12 years of age to help prevent infection with the sexually transmitted virus. The National Advisory Committee on Immunization Practices also recommends Gardasil for use in girls beginning at age 9 -- at the provider's discretion -- and in young women up to the age of 26.”

Dr. Eileen Dunne, a medical epidemiologist with the CDC said, “It's important for people to know that this is a highly prevalent infection, that sexually active women are likely to acquire this infection, and that it is important to have regular cervical cancer screenings at this point as currently recommended. There's also [CDC] recommendations for using the HPV vaccine to prevent certain types of HPV.”

According to the study, the number of women infected with the virus rose steadily throughout adolescence and peaked during college years (20-24 years old). Almost half (44%) of the women examined during their peak years tested positive for the virus. After 24, the rate of infection slowly declined as the women’s age increased.

The study tested more than 2,000 American women aging 14 to 59. Researchers reiterated that the study results do not calculate the lifetime risk of a woman ever contracting the virus.

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Are You Ready for the Prom Night?

For many high school seniors, particularly the girls, the biggest activity they look forward to during their last year in high school besides Graduation is Prom Night. It's considered to be the mother of all dress up parties and it is the night to put on the most glamorous dress and shoes, and get hair and make-up done. If a girl loves dressing up and being girly, Prom night is every girls' dream. In fact, girls look forward to this night all year long and go as far as to begin shopping for the perfect dress months in advance. Hence, one can only imagine the disappointment if the ultimate nightmare occurs - seeing another girl wearing the exact same dress at Prom night!

To avoid this, a good place to look for one of kind dresses is at vintage shops...it can be surprising the number of decent quality prom dresses available at cheap prices. Huge chain vintage stores such as Cross Roads and Buffalo Exchange can be found in larger cities or if you live near Los Angeles, there are various other vintage stores that provide a great collection of prom dresses such as the very popular Wasteland on Melrose Avenue. Many vintage stores carry dresses by well-liked brand names, so you can wear designer, one of a kind dresses for a fraction of the price. And because they are inexpensive, more money can be spent on matching shoes, jewelry, and handbags.

Or an alternate route you can take is splurging on a nice brand new designer dress that you purchase from boutiques such as Betsey Johnson, rather than mass chain retail stores or department stores. The clothes that many boutiques carry vary from store location to store location and because they do not make many of the same dresses (as they are in limited quantity), there is less of a chance that more than one person will have the same dress. Plus, designer boutiques carry dresses that are unique so they will be sure to stand out, if not catch many people's attention. In addition, because the dress is costly and made of good quality you will no only look, but will feel beautiful in it - the dress will be memorable to yourself as well as others. It is nice if you have a decent amount of money left over for shoes and accessories, but even if you do not, your dress alone will stand out and look gorgeous that other people will probably hardly notice what shoes you are wearing (if you are wearing a long dress, people can hardly see what kind of shoes you have on anyway) and could careless whether the jewelry is real or fake (if they can even tell the difference to begin with).

In the end, the prom dress shopping experience is what you feel comfortable with and what fits your personality the most. Whether you go for an expensive designer dress from a boutique or a unique find at a vintage store or even a conservative dress found anywhere else, it is all about what makes you look and feel beautiful. It is the night many girls look forward to the most during their teenage high school years, so might as well go all out and take the time to look for that perfect dress.

Bishara writes about how to look unique on your prom night. Visit: Prom Dresses

 

6 Quick And Easy Tips For Picking Up Younger Women

One of the biggest problems guys face is trying to pick up women in various age categories. Many men think using the same techniques and routines on different aged girls will get them the same positive results.

Unfortunately, this rarely works!

Instead of trying to use the same routine over and over, you should follow a system that's based on their specific age. This is especially true if you want to pick up younger women.

Now if you're interested in younger women (Ages 18-24) you should create a plan of attack which is specific to this age bracket.

In the next few paragraphs, I'll provide a system for picking up younger women. Primarily you can use these techniques to pick up young women when they're working at their job or place of employment.

Here we go…

1- Know where to find younger women

It's obvious, to pick up younger women, you have to go where they work.

This means frequenting spots like the beach, bars/clubs which cater to youthful crowd, coffee shops, and trendy retail stores. What's interesting is many of these places hire younger women to work there, so if you've got a pretty good routine, you can easily pick them up.

2- Be mature

There is one weak spot which all younger women have- they ALL want to feel like a mature adult.

Think about it…

These type of women are in the position where they want to have more independence. Either they're in high school, college or new to the 'real world', these women want to prove themselves and act like a real adult.

Therefore, if you want to pick up a younger girl, you have to be a mature person. Since she's looking to transform into a mature adult, you could be the guy who matches her desired outcome.

3- Treat her with respect

In addition to being a mature influence, you should treat a younger woman with respect. Since she wants to exert her independence, you want to treat her like and adult and not like a little girl.

When you're talking to her at her job, ask about her personal life and get her talking about the things she finds interesting. My advice is to keep the conversations lighthearted and fun, while avoiding the 'interview' like questions.

In other words, you want to focus on her needs and personality. Since you're probably one of the first guys to treat her with respect and maturity, you'll probably start to develop some attraction.

4- Cultivate a friendship

For a couple of weeks, start frequenting the spots where she works and strike up a conversation every time you see her. If she works in a service environment, make sure tip well and be a fun guy to be around.

In other words, make her look forward to seeing you whenever you arrive at her workplace.

5- Go for the date

After you've created a fun environment, try asking her out on a date. What you want to do is structure the date request in a manner where there is actually no way she can say no.

So if you want to ask her out for drinks. Say something like, "We should grab drinks sometime, let me get your number". What I like about this technique is you're never actually giving her a chance to say no.

In addition, by asking her on a date this way you're acting in a confident manner, which attracts women!

6- Get her alone

Now when you go out on the date, continue to be lighthearted and fun. Use your seduction techniques to build attraction and rapport.

If all goes well, you'll easily be able to seduce her and make things more physical.

Picking up younger women isn't a difficult thing to do. Just remember you have to fit a certain role and be the right kind of person. If you follow the 6 steps I've outlined in this article, you should easily meet and attract a lot of younger women in to your life.

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